As a bisexual man, you are more aware of your sexual needs than most. You know that you're not the type who can settle for one thing or the other. You've got to have both, and there's nothing wrong with that. You might have a man in your life right now, but miss the gentleness of a female. How can you know that the woman is going to understand your bisexuality? The only way you can ensure that she will understand your need for same-sex stimulation is if she is a bisexual female. Who else could grasp your desire to be with both a woman and a man?
The dating world is a difficult place
We all know that dating is difficult, no matter what. It's even more difficult if you're bisexual and are looking to date people of the same sex. It's more difficult because the average person can't understand why you would want to date two people at the same time. You can't date straight people since they will never understand your need to be with anyone other than them. It's not them that you have a problem with, it's that they aren't both male and female. There's nothing wrong with admitting that you need to be with both a man and a woman.
Bisexual women are reasonably easy to find
It's surprising how many bisexual women there are in the world. These days bi women are coming out of the woodwork. Some of that has to do with how society has changed and accepts bisexuality. Also, women have an easier time admitting they're bi. That's the world we face today, and it's the truth. A guy who comes out as bisexual has a lot more stigma put on him than a woman does. That is why you will find more women who claim to be bisexual than men. That doesn't mean fewer men are bisexual; it only means men are less open about it. You know that is the truth since you've probably stumbled upon quite a few guys who were on the down-low.
Don't be alarmed if she has a girlfriend
You might have a boyfriend. Why would you be surprised if she already has a girlfriend? If both of you are in a relationship, then you must tell your partners about what's going on. It's not fair to anyone if you're keeping all of this a secret. If your boyfriend doesn't know you're bisexual, then that's a problem. He should've known that right from the very getgo. If he has no clue, then he's already in the dark about so many things. You sneaking off and having sex with a woman behind his back may be the least of his concerns at this point.
Bisexual women enjoy the company of a woman, and it shouldn't come as a surprise to you. If she has a girlfriend, then maybe you'll get yourself in a threesome. Also, ask if she'd like to have a threesome with your boyfriend. Who knows, you all might end up having group sex one of these days. Just imagine how much fun it would be for all four of you to be in the sack together while being kinky beyond imagination.